Bummer it looks like I will soon be trotting off to the local Verizon store to replace my Galaxy III Samsung aka Sammy smart phone. While I was not looking she has aged and today I researched to find she will be three in June. A mere tot in human years but a crone in technology years. How time slips away while we are doing other things. My Gal is not holding her charge. I generally plug her in every couple days and thought I forgot to do so last night because she was drained this morning. But through today I have had problems keeping her on and her battery is quickly draining. I've followed the Verizon trouble shooting techniques including soft reset and recharge.
While I puzzled, Jerry ever the realist asked, "well how old is that phone?" I almost responded "only a year old and a few months," it seems like only yesterday I was learning her and mastering swiping. Today it's so easy to me as a result I often reply with swypos not reading carefully what I've swiped. Gal has become so familiar with me that she automatically fills in phrases. Yet, it has happened, unbelievable how Gal is getting up there in her Droid years and is slowly slowing down. I think I noticed some bllips a week or so ago when I went to check on my Facebook page, but I ignored it. It's like a health symptom, not to be ignored nor explained away, because it has progressed. Technology is wonderful especially at its newest and while it works and Gal does get the workout, functioning for email, Facebook and camera. Still it seems like only yesterday I was fussing with her and getting acquainted having picked her to replace my beloved Blackberry. Now Gal III will either need a new battery but more likely will be replaced.
Old age comes sooner all the time and is neither friend nor kind acquaintance to technology, once aging begins there is no stallling the inevitable, no way to help her limp along, no facelift, no botox, no joint replacement surgery. Toss and replace when dementia shows its first signs as with Gal Sammy. Nothing is repaired or tuned up, instead to the scrap heap as a replacement will be the answer. Fortunately I have been through this frequently enough to anticipate and expect, not be afraid and I will dive right into the new techie challenge pool. Perhaps it will not be so deep this time. Gal Sammy has become my friend and I will miss her but will not mourn. There will be another version, smarter and faster although Gal Sammy has been a whip and I have more features on her than I use. I see Verizon, our carrier of choice which has served us well all over the country and in Alaska on our travels, offers an S4 and a mini SIII. The S4 looks so much like Gal that it a switch may be the easiest techie transition.
Still if I could fix her I would. I come from a long line of fixers and live with a very handy man who can repair most anything. But droid years are unkind and so we shall see what's my next new techie toy.
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Saturday, March 29, 2014
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Yesterday's photos today's St Anthony
Back yard ice pond near hillside |
Up the hill side toward the front, our house to the left, neighbor on thr right. Glacial remains |
The other side of the back yard off the shop where the motor home lives. Much more snow and less melt, shadier there. |
Side front of house where the hosta sticks linger One wonders how they survived burial in the white all winter |
The hostas which I did not trim back are triumphantly poking their sticks upright. And one last patch of snirt is off to the right of the back garage door, in the yard. I think that patch has a personality all its own, a ghostly remains, as though clinging on for what little time it has left here. By tomorrow if the melt has continued it will likely have vanished.
But later today it was still there, this I know
Snirt creature, fading |
Side of house driveway from motor home shop to the street |
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Great Books and memory
I am enrolled in another online course through Hillsdale College, Great Books. Hillsdale is a small (student body of about 1400) independent, co-educational, residential liberal arts college in southern Michigan founded in 1844 and does not accept any governmental funds. It is an institution we have long supported and one that is included in our estate legacy. It has been too long ago that I last read and studied these. Quite intense and thought provoking, started with Homer's Iliad and The Odyssey. Similar to the History and Constitutional courses I have taken at Hillsdale this one on literature beginning with the classic ancients is occupying much of my previously free time to read, listen to the lectures, ponder, review the discussions, etc with a new session each week. I am enjoying this depth immensely.
My bucket list for retirement included to pursue and reengage in educational courses in history and literature of which I have always been fond. While in my professional career days there was little time for such. The course in the Holocaust that I took at the University of Wisconsin, La Crosse in the fall was another stimulating activity. Thanks to the ease of online study I can partake in much more. It invokes my discipline to keep up weekly.
Today I am pondering on what will happen to our culture as we no longer teach, learn nor appreciate history and literature. There seems to be a subversion of the basics, and a resultant ability to discern. In the lecture on The Odyssey, Professor Whalen spoke of Mnemosyne, Greek goddess of memory, the mother of the nine Muses and how memory is a gift that distinguishes us from other animals. Memory facilitates reasoning, and may be a basic foundation of civilization. Mnemosyne is unknown to many of the so called educated in the current generations, I am sure a mention of her would evoke a blank stare from our adult grandchildren and their parents, perhaps along with the blankness a grimace of "this means nothing to me....I live in California."
What happens when a culture, a people, an individual no longer has memory? Consider dementia and the dreaded Alzheimer's, how once memory is gone only barrenness remains. Robbed of memory the individual deteriorates. I equate that to what is happening today as deliberate indoctrination replaces education, an ability to reason to discern begins to vanish. Reasoning the high light of humanness dims. Humanities are disdained, few appreciate history and ever fewer have any awareness of the importance of ancient literature, of classics and the need to acquire wisdom to make judgments. So much is instant, online, finger strokes, Facebook where I too spend time is the substitute of many for personal interaction, discussions. So our western culture is beginning to fall apart to lose value, today sects of immigrants and others are urged to retain their own languages, their own cultures, not to assimilate, not to adopt ours. Could anything be more dreadful?
This of course is a welcome diversion for me as we are in a holding pattern while Jerry has physical therapy sessions and continues with medications to be determined if he will heal and avoid back surgery on the nerve that is pinched by two vertebrae in his spine. This means I do his chores and mine as well as continuing my physical fitness agenda a the Y. Spring is emerging here as well, There were two robins in our back yard and the other day I saw a flock of geese flying north in formation. We still have plenty of snirt, dirty snow, to melt but green grass in visible once again in our lawns.
My bucket list for retirement included to pursue and reengage in educational courses in history and literature of which I have always been fond. While in my professional career days there was little time for such. The course in the Holocaust that I took at the University of Wisconsin, La Crosse in the fall was another stimulating activity. Thanks to the ease of online study I can partake in much more. It invokes my discipline to keep up weekly.
Today I am pondering on what will happen to our culture as we no longer teach, learn nor appreciate history and literature. There seems to be a subversion of the basics, and a resultant ability to discern. In the lecture on The Odyssey, Professor Whalen spoke of Mnemosyne, Greek goddess of memory, the mother of the nine Muses and how memory is a gift that distinguishes us from other animals. Memory facilitates reasoning, and may be a basic foundation of civilization. Mnemosyne is unknown to many of the so called educated in the current generations, I am sure a mention of her would evoke a blank stare from our adult grandchildren and their parents, perhaps along with the blankness a grimace of "this means nothing to me....I live in California."
What happens when a culture, a people, an individual no longer has memory? Consider dementia and the dreaded Alzheimer's, how once memory is gone only barrenness remains. Robbed of memory the individual deteriorates. I equate that to what is happening today as deliberate indoctrination replaces education, an ability to reason to discern begins to vanish. Reasoning the high light of humanness dims. Humanities are disdained, few appreciate history and ever fewer have any awareness of the importance of ancient literature, of classics and the need to acquire wisdom to make judgments. So much is instant, online, finger strokes, Facebook where I too spend time is the substitute of many for personal interaction, discussions. So our western culture is beginning to fall apart to lose value, today sects of immigrants and others are urged to retain their own languages, their own cultures, not to assimilate, not to adopt ours. Could anything be more dreadful?
This of course is a welcome diversion for me as we are in a holding pattern while Jerry has physical therapy sessions and continues with medications to be determined if he will heal and avoid back surgery on the nerve that is pinched by two vertebrae in his spine. This means I do his chores and mine as well as continuing my physical fitness agenda a the Y. Spring is emerging here as well, There were two robins in our back yard and the other day I saw a flock of geese flying north in formation. We still have plenty of snirt, dirty snow, to melt but green grass in visible once again in our lawns.
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Friday, March 7, 2014
Polish proverbs Nie moj cyrh
Today on Facebook, Carlie, a close friend shared an old Polish saying but in English. It took me back years, when was the last time I heard it, perhaps 2010. It was something my granpap Teofil and later,his son, Uncle Carl, said all the time. Something I had forgotten and something I felt was a great reminder. "Not my circus, not my monkeys" Granpap said that all the time when someone would try to bemoan something that was going on which he felt was not his business and he would not be bothered. It wasn't that he was uncaring or unsympathetic but he knew that some folks just whine all the time and if you let them they will soon snare you into moaning along with them. He had overcome many obstacles in his life and he would not accept someone else's burdening him. His philosophy was deal with it or shut up. This at times annoyed my grandma Rose who would say, "Pap you can't just ignore that." and he'd reply, "hah! Sure I, can watch..." And off he would go on his way about his business usually whistling or humming. He had another saying like "don't tie your monkey to me" which meant get lost with that.
I really had not considered this being a Polish proverb, just something they said and passed on from father to son. Polish for circus is "cyrk" or "sorkus" and often refers to a mess or a strange situation, something chaotic. In Poland monkeys, "malpy" are associated with chaos, trouble, and down right nuisance. So if the monkeys are running around loose or escaping from the circus, well you get the picture. Monkeys are "problems" in Poland, and circuses are where "problems" come from. If it's not your monkey, and it's not even from your circus, then it's not your problem. It is a basically simple philosophy and stops some people from spreading further gossip as well, no one will listen and there they stay with mouth agape.
How frequently I think that today the monkeys are really running the zoos. Now that I have been reminded of this wisdom I will adopt it more fully, not that I get easily distracted by such nuisance. The delete button works well on email and on Facebook I hide the ever whiners. I don't read their agonies. Call it cold hearted, I call it release from what others would use to drag you along or ignoring the lamentations. I used to tell people that if I wanted to hear such gnashing and whining I could read Lamentations in the Bible. Those unfamiliar with the Bible were clueless to what I meant. In my career as a state bureaucrat I developed a skill for being physically present but mentally off elsewhere, to shield and amuse myself when I was captive in ever too long meetings or hearings and some tiresome soul was pontificating. Here years later, I still invoke that skill by semi-listening to what someone may be saying when usually it is not my monkey and surely not my circus. There is ample happening in my life with friends who have cancer, are handling real illnesses, losses, and financial issues; with Jerry facing back surgery and so it goes. All else, nope not my monkey.
I really had not considered this being a Polish proverb, just something they said and passed on from father to son. Polish for circus is "cyrk" or "sorkus" and often refers to a mess or a strange situation, something chaotic. In Poland monkeys, "malpy" are associated with chaos, trouble, and down right nuisance. So if the monkeys are running around loose or escaping from the circus, well you get the picture. Monkeys are "problems" in Poland, and circuses are where "problems" come from. If it's not your monkey, and it's not even from your circus, then it's not your problem. It is a basically simple philosophy and stops some people from spreading further gossip as well, no one will listen and there they stay with mouth agape.
How frequently I think that today the monkeys are really running the zoos. Now that I have been reminded of this wisdom I will adopt it more fully, not that I get easily distracted by such nuisance. The delete button works well on email and on Facebook I hide the ever whiners. I don't read their agonies. Call it cold hearted, I call it release from what others would use to drag you along or ignoring the lamentations. I used to tell people that if I wanted to hear such gnashing and whining I could read Lamentations in the Bible. Those unfamiliar with the Bible were clueless to what I meant. In my career as a state bureaucrat I developed a skill for being physically present but mentally off elsewhere, to shield and amuse myself when I was captive in ever too long meetings or hearings and some tiresome soul was pontificating. Here years later, I still invoke that skill by semi-listening to what someone may be saying when usually it is not my monkey and surely not my circus. There is ample happening in my life with friends who have cancer, are handling real illnesses, losses, and financial issues; with Jerry facing back surgery and so it goes. All else, nope not my monkey.
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Give it up for Lent, the four letter word
Baba Rose |
What? That must have been the first time something was denied me because my grandparents made it their business to ensure that whatever I wanted I had. I did not make sense of the time span, "until Easter" but I went about my business with a frown and then forgot all about it until the next time I was denied. Still I did not dwell on these things and yet the lesson continued. "Someday you will be glad you did without...."
Granpap Teofil |
Me about 4 years old |
Although I left the Catholic religion which today beckons me for the spiritual comfort, a Lenten tradition of deprivation became my annual ritual. I used to be a chocoholic, there was not a place I did not stash chocolate, it went where I did; my co-workers could always find a supply in my office. While I am unsure of the exact year, sometime in the early 1990's I decided to make the ultimate Lenten sacrifice and give up chocolate; Roberta, who was most devout and my closest friend questioned me about the severity of my choice, would I be able to do that.,really? It certainly was one of the most difficult deprivations I ever experienced but a miracle emerged just like Easter, I lost my extreme fondness for chocolate; not something I was looking for but something I have now recognized as a blessing. I have never again been consumed by chocolate. Today I enjoy some dark chocolate now and then but I can take it or leave it. It's not something that I crave or need and I am amazed thinking back to how I had to eat chocolate at least once a day then. Lent the four letter word rewarded me at the end of it all, just as promised by my grandma so long ago.
Today it is really difficult for me to think of giving up something I would miss eating; I am not a
Me today leaner and healthier |
So what to give up for Lent in 2014? Something that will be a daily reminder in denial. I have determined it is another four letter word, one I've been saying out loud in response to annoyance, rubbish, or other non likable things that happen. No, it's not that "f" word although I admit to evoking it in absolute frustration, for especially bad news like death, cancers, etc. I was unaware that I used this other word so frequently until Jerry mentioned something one day and then I attempted to disguise it using the Polish for it. Bad habits start with such unawareness. This word is not pleasant and not nice and not something I recall saying much in the past, it starts with "s" may be preceded with another 4 letters, "bull." So for Lent, the cuss jar appears. When ever I say that word it's $1 to the jar; further, each time I think it it's 50 cents. If I am dutiful and persevere, this bad habit will be gone in 40 days when the joy of Easter returns. The money will go to the Salvation Army, one of my favorite charities and one that I support financially all the time.
What are you giving up for Lent or do you?
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Friday, February 28, 2014
Sepia Saturday 217 Rocks for climbing British Columbia
Unable to find any telescopes amongst our photo collection I opted for rocks or as follows a mountain of rock. In July 1985 we drove our camper north from California to British Columbia, Canada and spent a few days at the then two year old Klahanie Recreational Campground, Squamish British Columbia, just across from the breath taking Shannon Falls and very near the Statawamus Chief. It is 45 minutes between Whistler and Vancouver, in a recreation area that touts breathtaking beauty. A prime location to campers from all over the world.it has 38 acres of forest and is along the Sea to Sky Corridor.
British Columbia is one of Jerry's favorite places in the world having spent time there when he was in the Air Force and so we often drove north to vacation; in fact at one time we considered migrating to British Columbia. He more than me but we (me more than he) decided to remain in northern California. The brochure, saved from that trip shows its picturesque majesty. Digging out these photos gave us a chance to reminisce about that trip for just the two of us and the days we spent there that week there on our way to Prince George. I Googled and learned that Klahanie is still operating, today, year round. In fact today it is a prime base camp for those venturesome folks who wish to climb the Chief, North America's largest granite monolith on any of its more than 300 trails.
Our photos are fading so I spent time scanning these. First from across the road right outside our campsite, this is the Shannon Falls, cascading down the granite peaks. Looks just like the photo on the brochure and just like it does today almost 30 years later...granite does not easily change and so for many years before and many more to come it will be just this way in its majesty. It was warm in July, I know that because I was set for a hike wearing shorts in this next photo. There behind me are the falls and the picturesque Klahanie store and lodge, popular day stop for picnics then and now with several autos in the lot in front of the falls. In those days, preditgital cameras and all we did not take so many photos. I can find none of our short hike, we were not on a mountaineering adventure, just out for a short climb.
So there is one of our granite adventures to match up with the rocks in the prompt this week.
To see what others share this week go here to the Sepia http://sepiasaturday.blogspot.com/2014/02/sepia-saturday-217-1-march-2014.html
British Columbia is one of Jerry's favorite places in the world having spent time there when he was in the Air Force and so we often drove north to vacation; in fact at one time we considered migrating to British Columbia. He more than me but we (me more than he) decided to remain in northern California. The brochure, saved from that trip shows its picturesque majesty. Digging out these photos gave us a chance to reminisce about that trip for just the two of us and the days we spent there that week there on our way to Prince George. I Googled and learned that Klahanie is still operating, today, year round. In fact today it is a prime base camp for those venturesome folks who wish to climb the Chief, North America's largest granite monolith on any of its more than 300 trails.
Shannon Falls, BC from our site |
Pat at Klahanie Campground Shannon Falls in the background |
Jerry knew then as now how to relax after a hike. Back in the shade at the site Cold brew alongside |
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Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Being an inspiration
"You inspired me...." "I got in...I'm so glad you are here today, wanted to tell you..." were the words I heard yesterday standing in the hallway at the Y waiting for the first Zumba class to clear out of the Fitness studio for our turn. It was a greeting from a gal I had been talking to about the YMCA Diabetes Prevention program and my success. At first I look stymied and then she said, "the diabetes prevention.." which clicked. I was so pleased that she had decided to check it out and that I can be a part of getting her back to a healthy lifestyle. She is younger than me, likely only in her 50's and has now made a commitment to avoid the diabetes that runs in her family too. I will encourage her all I can but have cautioned her, it is work and no one does this for you only you. She just asked that she be able to talk with me about it and of course I agreed. But she will get support from her facilitator and hopefully her fellow classmates and if she is as serious as she appears she will draw on herself..
I have become a walking advocate for this program with my own success of losing 30 pounds since September, moving back to the healthy weight of my 20's and 30's. I never dreamed I would be so successful. I struggled too and couldn't fathom why that weight hung to me, I finally hd almost decided it was going to be the way it was until the doctor gave me that alert that my fasting blood glucose levels were rising. I vowed to do all I could to avoid further escalation or getting across tht line to diabetes. Although my program goal was losing 15 pounds that I surpassed and doubled it amazed my doctor and me. It was slow some weeks only half a pound but it came off. For the first time in I don't know how many years I did not gain weight over the holidays in November and Christmas and through it all I was not anti social.
I've written before on this blog about the Y's national link to the Diabetes Prevention program, a national effort, which starts with an hour at a weekly meeting for 16 weeks where some aspect of nutrition and or physical activity is discussed along with the dreaded weigh in and review of the past week's food diaries (logs.) After 16 weeks (19 for my group due to holidays and the facilitator being away one week) for the rest of this year long program, which includes a YMCA membership one attends a maintenance class once a month led by another facilitator who is usually a certified nutritionist/dietitian.
While I have met others who have not been as successful, it does not take long hearing their woes to understand why they struggle. I have a genuine sympathy for those who cannot persevere for whatever reasons and for those who really ask for help but I have little tolerance for whiners, when they complain that it's not working I ask them if they log their food, and invariable they say, "no I don't like to do that." Don't like it, then to me they are saying they prefer fat and diabetes; it's their choice. Life is all about our choices despite how it's framed or who's blamed. Along with my lack of tolerance for whining is even less for those who kid themselves and want pity. Most complainers want magic, the quick fix, the stroke of a wand. Don't we all? No such magic wand exists for health maintenance and certainly not for weight loss. Long ago a friend and I talked about how much harder we work now to try to stay fit; don't ever recall it being this much work.
Sure as there are any number of diets that work in the short term, the nefarious yo yo dieting, which affects the body far worse than just staying overweight is often the result. It has to be a way of eating that one can follow for life. Think of it, will you exist from now on eating only cabbage soup or no carbs or no whatever as suggested by certain diets of the month? Weight Watchers is a healthy choice and works for many people so long as they stay with it. Any weight loss program from which one cannot wait to get back to the foods they left behind for a lower number on the scale are sure to create rebound to packing back the pounds and then some. It must be a lifestyle change. I have met many who regained all the weight they lost and it is not a mystery why that happens.
I am keeping off the weight, doing what I did to lose that fat of which we were reminded with a visual a 5 lb blob of yellowish matter resembling 5 pounds of fat at yesterday's Maintenance meeting. Yuck the blob was passed around; as I held the gross looking plastic rubbery clump I was so glad to say, "I lost 6 of these!" Medical research shows that one pound of fat has approximately one to two miles of blood vessels so each extra pound strains the heart pumping that much more. Each pound of fat on your body has roughly 7 miles of capillaries (smallest blood vessels) that deliver nutrients to the tissue. For every ten pounds of fat gained, your heart has to pump blood through an additional 70 miles of blood vessels! Consequently, it is not difficult to see why obesity and heart disease go hand in hand. The more I learned the more I became vehemently committed to ensuring my health.
This program is a lifestyle change, not a diet and is based on a few simple keys:
The Y program director asked me to share my story which I readily obliged by writing a three page article which she loved and sent on to the national headquarters. The next thing I knew I became a rock star of the Y Diabetes Prevention Program; my story is to be featured in their national publication. I will soon post what I wrote here on this blog describing my entry to the program with all the skepticism I could bring... I was also asked to work on a team for this year's YMCA annual campaign which will feature our prevention program. One thing keeps leading to another and last week I was interviewed for television here in the LaCrosse area, WKBT-TV to publicize the campaign. I am not shy nor tongue tied and have had extensive experience in public speaking in my career and in organizations everything from live news interviews, cameras to legislative testimony in Sacramento and in Washington, DC, so it was old times for me. Actually I am more of a natural born ham. I knew the Y loved personal stories but didn't think mine was any big deal, however I am learning that it is indeed.
At my ripe age of 69 years to regain my lifestyle healthier than before, through this program has been a blessing and if I can share this to help others including the YMCA I am more than willing. My fasting blood glucose which was showing red warning flags is now low normal and my cholesterol decreased 17 percent. My doctor is so pleased and proud that he gave me the flyer about this program; he said he wished he could have me talk with so many patients who just cannot get on the wagon to improving their health. .
I will not say it's easy but it's achievable. And when one values health one will commit to doing whatever it takes. I thought I was a fairly healthy eater, I do not eat fast foods nor overindulge in red meats nor sweets. In fact I prefer sour or salty crunchy to sweets. But my weakness is cheese, oh I love cheese, melted, hard, grated, there is not a cheese I do not like and cheese is so good because it's heavy in fat. A grilled cheese sandwich has always been my very favorite lunch. And so where do I land in retirement but right across the river, Cheese-head Wisconsin country...heaven for me. It was here I discovered cheese curds, another delicacy for me. I love them raw or even better coated and deep fried, melty. Almost daily my quick lunch had been cheese and an apple or other fruit and perhaps some triscuit crackers or a fast quesadilla. Healthy right? Wrong! One ounce of cheese has between 8 to 10 or more grams of fat. I ate a hunk of cheese way more than an ounce, more like 5 ounces and through the day it was also a favored snack for me. You do not have to be a math genius to calculate that I could easily exceed my daily fat gram allowance on cheese. So now I know, yikes I learned something about nutrition. I never thought of this before despite my constant pursuit of education in nutritional eating. I have counted calories and carbohydrates, never before fat grams. Now I can eat cheese but never again the way I used to; one ounce of cheese which is about a one inch square is an allowance for a snack, carefully monitored and recorded. I found the culprit and it was me! Besides cheese, ice cream and frozen custard were almost daily evening treats and well, now you have the keys to my success. Awareness and admitting, that I was doing this to me. The same with nuts that had been a favorite snack. Nuts are healthy and so a handful now and then when passing by the counter didn't hurt, so I thought. And wrong again. Nuts may be nutritious but they are full of fat. Now my favorite snack is pretzels which provide the crunch and salt and no to very little fat. And my glass of wine has no fat either.
But back to the program and my spokesperson role. Besides the interview the film crew followed me around though the gym on my workouts on the elliptical and the recumbent bike after the interview. At least I had my hair combed and was not as "just got out of bed looking" as I routinely am when I go to the Y. Why dress up and clean up to sweat it all off? We appear with a brush through the hair grooming and begin our workouts.. But on interview day I was looking a bit better still, not aware that I'd get the full paparazzi treatment which had folks in the busy sweaty gym pondering, "who's she?" I did admonish the camera man that it was not necessary to get butt shots from behind me as he laughed he wanted every angle. I refused to don my swim suit for them and allow the film to show the water logged me as well. Just when I thought we were done, they asked if I would return to the lobby and entry to the Y so they could film me walking in and talking...another natural talent for me, talking to as I told the reporter, I can talk to anybody about anything and or to anybody about nothing, which way do we go!" They later told Nate that they had not had so much fun on an interview for a long time and proclaimed me, " an awesome natural." Aww, watch out now I'm puffing up!
But the kicker was yesterday at Zumba class--Monday morning with my hair combed and reverting to my "just out of bed au naturel look" as we rehearsed a new Zumba routine, Nate, the Y's marketing director, appeared with the same film crew, pointed me out and there they were as was I, film at 11. What could I do but keep on dancing! The instructor told the class, "we have a celebrity in our midst, blame Ms P M." I have been explaining to the ladies ever since. Now we have our viewing celebration party coming up soon as it shows on TV and the news which will be sometime in March. I have a lot of explaining to do all the time now just like today at Yoga, "hey did you bring the film crew along?" Glad to say, no it's just us. But it's a;; abput working it and it's all good for the Y and for ourselves.
For more information talk to the YMCA near you to learn about this excellent program based on extensive national research through the National Institutes for Health. . It's healthy for you. http://www.ymca.net/diabetes-prevention/
I have become a walking advocate for this program with my own success of losing 30 pounds since September, moving back to the healthy weight of my 20's and 30's. I never dreamed I would be so successful. I struggled too and couldn't fathom why that weight hung to me, I finally hd almost decided it was going to be the way it was until the doctor gave me that alert that my fasting blood glucose levels were rising. I vowed to do all I could to avoid further escalation or getting across tht line to diabetes. Although my program goal was losing 15 pounds that I surpassed and doubled it amazed my doctor and me. It was slow some weeks only half a pound but it came off. For the first time in I don't know how many years I did not gain weight over the holidays in November and Christmas and through it all I was not anti social.
I've written before on this blog about the Y's national link to the Diabetes Prevention program, a national effort, which starts with an hour at a weekly meeting for 16 weeks where some aspect of nutrition and or physical activity is discussed along with the dreaded weigh in and review of the past week's food diaries (logs.) After 16 weeks (19 for my group due to holidays and the facilitator being away one week) for the rest of this year long program, which includes a YMCA membership one attends a maintenance class once a month led by another facilitator who is usually a certified nutritionist/dietitian.
While I have met others who have not been as successful, it does not take long hearing their woes to understand why they struggle. I have a genuine sympathy for those who cannot persevere for whatever reasons and for those who really ask for help but I have little tolerance for whiners, when they complain that it's not working I ask them if they log their food, and invariable they say, "no I don't like to do that." Don't like it, then to me they are saying they prefer fat and diabetes; it's their choice. Life is all about our choices despite how it's framed or who's blamed. Along with my lack of tolerance for whining is even less for those who kid themselves and want pity. Most complainers want magic, the quick fix, the stroke of a wand. Don't we all? No such magic wand exists for health maintenance and certainly not for weight loss. Long ago a friend and I talked about how much harder we work now to try to stay fit; don't ever recall it being this much work.
Sure as there are any number of diets that work in the short term, the nefarious yo yo dieting, which affects the body far worse than just staying overweight is often the result. It has to be a way of eating that one can follow for life. Think of it, will you exist from now on eating only cabbage soup or no carbs or no whatever as suggested by certain diets of the month? Weight Watchers is a healthy choice and works for many people so long as they stay with it. Any weight loss program from which one cannot wait to get back to the foods they left behind for a lower number on the scale are sure to create rebound to packing back the pounds and then some. It must be a lifestyle change. I have met many who regained all the weight they lost and it is not a mystery why that happens.
5 pounds of fat compared to muscle..gross |
I am keeping off the weight, doing what I did to lose that fat of which we were reminded with a visual a 5 lb blob of yellowish matter resembling 5 pounds of fat at yesterday's Maintenance meeting. Yuck the blob was passed around; as I held the gross looking plastic rubbery clump I was so glad to say, "I lost 6 of these!" Medical research shows that one pound of fat has approximately one to two miles of blood vessels so each extra pound strains the heart pumping that much more. Each pound of fat on your body has roughly 7 miles of capillaries (smallest blood vessels) that deliver nutrients to the tissue. For every ten pounds of fat gained, your heart has to pump blood through an additional 70 miles of blood vessels! Consequently, it is not difficult to see why obesity and heart disease go hand in hand. The more I learned the more I became vehemently committed to ensuring my health.
Read more at http://www.omg-facts.com/Science/For-every-pound-of-fat-you-gain-your-bod/28212#iJUZuh5Yj19qHW4A.99
This program is a lifestyle change, not a diet and is based on a few simple keys:
- daily food tracking, writing it down for me in lieu of electronic gadgets which abound. One participant said she did not want to do homework and record; she did not lose much weight. Her rebelliousness hurt no one but herself. Every participant has an individually calculated personal daily fat gram allowance based on age, weight, medical data, etc. Mine limited me to 33 fat grams a day and the facilitator often admonshed me to consume all each day to avoid yo yo rebounds. Now keeping it at or below 33 grams a day is my goal because above that I have determined that i my weight would begin to increase. Along with that calories are recorded but not the I would begin to add weight. I have also learned that high fat foods = high calorie foods.
- the program recommends 30 minutes a day or 150 minutes a week of physical activity for me it is from one to one and half hours physical activity each day even in this tundra arctic where we have been confined all winter. My physical activity occurs now mostly exclusively at the Y unless I am shoveling the blasted snow while Jerry's back heals. I have always been active so this was a no brainer for me. But I sure do miss outdoor walks in this so too cold winter.
- weighing every day faithfully and recording it on the food log. That's paying attention to what the old enemy, never my friend, the scale has to say. I weigh in every morning now. This is a big change for me; I would avoid the scale in every way possible before, kidding myself that I could tell when my weight edged up by my clothes. I no longer shudder when I go to the doctor's and they weigh me in first thing.
The Y program director asked me to share my story which I readily obliged by writing a three page article which she loved and sent on to the national headquarters. The next thing I knew I became a rock star of the Y Diabetes Prevention Program; my story is to be featured in their national publication. I will soon post what I wrote here on this blog describing my entry to the program with all the skepticism I could bring... I was also asked to work on a team for this year's YMCA annual campaign which will feature our prevention program. One thing keeps leading to another and last week I was interviewed for television here in the LaCrosse area, WKBT-TV to publicize the campaign. I am not shy nor tongue tied and have had extensive experience in public speaking in my career and in organizations everything from live news interviews, cameras to legislative testimony in Sacramento and in Washington, DC, so it was old times for me. Actually I am more of a natural born ham. I knew the Y loved personal stories but didn't think mine was any big deal, however I am learning that it is indeed.
At my ripe age of 69 years to regain my lifestyle healthier than before, through this program has been a blessing and if I can share this to help others including the YMCA I am more than willing. My fasting blood glucose which was showing red warning flags is now low normal and my cholesterol decreased 17 percent. My doctor is so pleased and proud that he gave me the flyer about this program; he said he wished he could have me talk with so many patients who just cannot get on the wagon to improving their health. .
I will not say it's easy but it's achievable. And when one values health one will commit to doing whatever it takes. I thought I was a fairly healthy eater, I do not eat fast foods nor overindulge in red meats nor sweets. In fact I prefer sour or salty crunchy to sweets. But my weakness is cheese, oh I love cheese, melted, hard, grated, there is not a cheese I do not like and cheese is so good because it's heavy in fat. A grilled cheese sandwich has always been my very favorite lunch. And so where do I land in retirement but right across the river, Cheese-head Wisconsin country...heaven for me. It was here I discovered cheese curds, another delicacy for me. I love them raw or even better coated and deep fried, melty. Almost daily my quick lunch had been cheese and an apple or other fruit and perhaps some triscuit crackers or a fast quesadilla. Healthy right? Wrong! One ounce of cheese has between 8 to 10 or more grams of fat. I ate a hunk of cheese way more than an ounce, more like 5 ounces and through the day it was also a favored snack for me. You do not have to be a math genius to calculate that I could easily exceed my daily fat gram allowance on cheese. So now I know, yikes I learned something about nutrition. I never thought of this before despite my constant pursuit of education in nutritional eating. I have counted calories and carbohydrates, never before fat grams. Now I can eat cheese but never again the way I used to; one ounce of cheese which is about a one inch square is an allowance for a snack, carefully monitored and recorded. I found the culprit and it was me! Besides cheese, ice cream and frozen custard were almost daily evening treats and well, now you have the keys to my success. Awareness and admitting, that I was doing this to me. The same with nuts that had been a favorite snack. Nuts are healthy and so a handful now and then when passing by the counter didn't hurt, so I thought. And wrong again. Nuts may be nutritious but they are full of fat. Now my favorite snack is pretzels which provide the crunch and salt and no to very little fat. And my glass of wine has no fat either.
But back to the program and my spokesperson role. Besides the interview the film crew followed me around though the gym on my workouts on the elliptical and the recumbent bike after the interview. At least I had my hair combed and was not as "just got out of bed looking" as I routinely am when I go to the Y. Why dress up and clean up to sweat it all off? We appear with a brush through the hair grooming and begin our workouts.. But on interview day I was looking a bit better still, not aware that I'd get the full paparazzi treatment which had folks in the busy sweaty gym pondering, "who's she?" I did admonish the camera man that it was not necessary to get butt shots from behind me as he laughed he wanted every angle. I refused to don my swim suit for them and allow the film to show the water logged me as well. Just when I thought we were done, they asked if I would return to the lobby and entry to the Y so they could film me walking in and talking...another natural talent for me, talking to as I told the reporter, I can talk to anybody about anything and or to anybody about nothing, which way do we go!" They later told Nate that they had not had so much fun on an interview for a long time and proclaimed me, " an awesome natural." Aww, watch out now I'm puffing up!
But the kicker was yesterday at Zumba class--Monday morning with my hair combed and reverting to my "just out of bed au naturel look" as we rehearsed a new Zumba routine, Nate, the Y's marketing director, appeared with the same film crew, pointed me out and there they were as was I, film at 11. What could I do but keep on dancing! The instructor told the class, "we have a celebrity in our midst, blame Ms P M." I have been explaining to the ladies ever since. Now we have our viewing celebration party coming up soon as it shows on TV and the news which will be sometime in March. I have a lot of explaining to do all the time now just like today at Yoga, "hey did you bring the film crew along?" Glad to say, no it's just us. But it's a;; abput working it and it's all good for the Y and for ourselves.
For more information talk to the YMCA near you to learn about this excellent program based on extensive national research through the National Institutes for Health. . It's healthy for you. http://www.ymca.net/diabetes-prevention/
Friday, February 21, 2014
Sepia Saturday 216 Suits and hats and men's fashions 1923
Adelbert Behrndt and Sophia Roth Behrndt 1923 |
Brothers in law at Behrndt's 50th Left to right Burl Kellogg, Charlie Behrndt (Jerry's grandpa), Phillip Frey and Otto Ziemann |
1930 Lottie and Otto Zieman Esther (Jerry's grandmother) to right |
This is my response to the men in suits and hats from our family photos. Check out what others have to show for the week at the link here.
http://sepiasaturday.blogspot.com/2014/02/sepia-saturday-216-22-february-2014.html
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