There is a purpose to the trip.....Jerry has discovered another motor home to trade up, the diesel he has been pining for. Our motor home is perfectly lovely but he wants a diesel, bigger for our intended trips,i.e. Alaska this summer. After all, he claims, ours has 30,000+ miles.....to which I reply, "so what, my car has 36,000 and we are not trading it in anytime soon?" With our elderly care responsibilities (my last relative, PA Uncle Carl, soon to be 93 who said Friday on the phone, "Jerry should get what he wants because life is to enjoy what we have while we can." Uncle Carl is quite the philosopher who said we should go, have a good time and send him a postcard or two. And so Jerry felt quite smug. I've said before, my family everyone, Mom, the aunts and Uncle Carl always favor my husband in any discussion! It's a plot! Meantime MIL, Jerry's dismal 94 year old Mom here in the local SNF is of course not as amenable but managed to nag about what would happen with her laundry while we are gone! I told her the SNF will do it, as they do for others there, but as she refuses to change clothing she will likely save it up for our return as she does other times..) Well, you get the drift, we have not traveled as extensively in the RV as we had planned. another one of those life things where we plan and the Greater Beyond laughs... Nevertheless over these 47+ years I have observed Jerry's actions and determination enough to know that sooner or later he would get what he wanted. This is why he dares not say a word when I purchase anything as cost of his purchases have far exceeded the meager amounts of my splurges. I suppose my philosophy about all of this, if it's to be it will be, a fated approach has once again worked it's truth, because the other deals and motor homes were not to be and when those did not materialize, Jerry would pout. Yes, he can and does...
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| 2008 Fleetwood Excursion |
The interior cabinetry is a bit lighter than I'd have liked; being quite satisfied with the cherry tone in our current RV, but this looks acceptable. I do like the splash of red upholstery, and there is another couch for seating for company. This coach we are told was owned by a couple who seldom used it and then their age overtook them. That is preferable with amenities more suited to two than a large family mode of travel. Lack of a lower oven in the kitchen aroused my skepticism, but there is a micro wave and convection oven as we have currently. But you know once I thought it over, I have never used the lower oven in our current RV nor in the older one other than for storage. Over 10 years of motor home ownership has not necessitated an oven, so I should not miss that a bit. We eat differently in the RV and the convection oven meets our needs adequately. Neither does this model have a dishwasher, an commonly offered amenity, the former owners opting out. I never thought I'd say this, but I do not need nor desire a dishwasher in the motor home, fond as I am of our home dishwasher. In the RV I am quite used to washing our few dishes now and then and cannot imagine I'd need a dishwasher, preferring the storage cabinet in its place. We frequently use paper plates too and or eat out.
Well to my PA girlfriends at home, Jerry will have something to do--he promised to host them using his outside kitchen that was in other models but not this one, so he will have to rough it, cooking their meal using our old outdoor grill. This coach is black, red, white and silver....black and red were our high school colors. Our Ken Hi 50th reunion is well underway!
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Dining area and recliners to the left  The photo does not show room on either side |
Ahh, well, as my phobia of becoming an elderly bag lady, surfaces with this expenditure, I keep in mind that we gain less than minimal interest these days, perhaps a national sales tax looms which will drive up prices, and the only value of money is to make one's life easier and enjoyable and help others along the way....still, it takes a hunk out of savings, that we will not replace in retirement. We are fortunate that our home is fully paid for and we have no debt, able to manage well with my pension, Jerry's IRA, and social security. Still, I see that old bag lady image! Where does she come from? She resembles the witch in Hansel and Gretel, a Grimm's fairy tale my Grandma read me in childhood...except that witch had a house and this baglady has a shopping cart! I really should name her as she has been regularly showing herself to me for a long time whenever we spend $$. She does some good as she is the reason I saved $$ diligently while working. Perhaps if I give her a name and write a tale about her, she will leave...from the depths of my subconscious and go where she is more welcome!
From another blog, another Californian no less, is it because we witnessed this daily in the metropolitans(http://www.thedigeratilife.com/blog/index.php/2007/03/13/help-could-i-have-bag-lady-syndrome/) " I found out that I actually have a few things in common with these women: Lily Tomlin, Gloria Steinem, Shirley MacLaine, Katie Couric, and even the wife of Charles Schwab and Company’s ex-CEO! It may not be what you think, as we don’t share the same fortunes; what it is, in fact, is that we all share money anxieties. These women all admitted to having “bag lady syndrome.” And I’m afraid I might actually have a touch of it as well. What is “bag lady syndrome” exactly? It’s this irrational fear of not having enough money. That maybe one day we’ll wake up and we won’t have quite enough to feed, clothe ourselves or put something over our heads. Maybe we’ll find ourselves holing up in our cars or even just loitering the streets. I’ll admit I feel this way only sometimes, but why do I feel it at all?"
That blogger continued, and bingo, there I am...."I don’t think I necessarily have a pronounced case of this, although I am certain that my frugal habits stem from the need to store up, like a squirrel does its nuts, before the winter season hits. What I discovered though, was that despite making fairly good progress with our household’s financial plans and goals, any concerns I was harboring regarding having a “lack of resources” at any point in time may be due to my tendency to anticipate the future a little too dramatically. Because I try to ground myself in reality too much and realize how future changes in our lives can impact our current lifestyle and financial standing, I end up acting like the proverbial hoarding marsupial and have made this a way of life. I also have this terrible habit of catastrophizing too much thus leading myself to adapt certain behaviors that have been both good and bad for our plight. Good, in the sense that our conservative fiscal habits have earned us a stable foundation today, but bad, in the sense that unpleasant and sometimes irrational fears can cloud our decisions and just plain make us miserable."
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| She will not be able to keep up with us on the road and I cannot see her being welcomed inside. Here she is, even upscale with her baby carriage, instead of the normal shopping carts. |
