Once upon a Christmas time, long ago, a man who had a big heart, but little money, dreamt he could give his friends endless riches. When he awoke, the dream kept running through his mind, over and over. Finally, he asked himself: "If I could give my friends anything, what would I give?" He smiled as he began to think of all the wondrous things he could buy for them but then he thought: "I'm a happy man, yet I have none of those things." And he began to think that perhaps real wealth could not be measured in riches. Perhaps there were gifts of greater value than the things money could buy. In the still of the night, he pondered these things and thought of Christmas and what it meant to him. Taking out his quill, he began to write on a parchment scroll:
On the first day of Christmas I pray for you joy in abundance and laughter, for laughter cures our ills and joy makes our spirits soar.
On the second day of Christmas, I pray for you a sigh when you need one, for a sigh clears the heart as a cough clears the throat, and with a sigh comes acceptance of what we cannot change.
On the third day of Christmas, I pray for you tears when you need them, for tears clear the eyes to see the stars and cleanse the soul to let healing begin.
On the fourth day of Christmas, I pray for you serenity, for fights and wars start in individual hearts and that is where they must end.
On the fifth day of Christmas, I pray for you wisdom, for our priceless gift is the gift of choice - and we should use it well every day, in word and deed.
On the sixth day of Christmas, I pray for you patience, for most troubles pass if we wait them out, and success comes with persistence.
On the seventh day of Christmas, I pray for you courage, for there may be many pitfalls and dangers ahead and problems can only be solved when they are faced.
On the eighth day of Christmas, I pray for you compassion, for we cannot help others until we understand them, and we cannot understand them until we walk in their shoes.
On the ninth day of Christmas, I pray for you a willingness to work, for work turns dreams to reality - whether the dreams are ours or belong to those we can help.
On the tenth day of Christmas, I pray for you unwavering faith, for faith shapes our morals and our destiny and draws us closer to God.
On the eleventh day of Christmas, I pray for you a mind full of hope, for hope determines our attitudes, sets our goals and creates our ideals.
On the twelfth day of Christmas, I pray for you a heart so full of love that every day you must give some away to those whose paths you cross.
And with each prayer, the man realized he was not giving a gift at all, but hoping that his friends would find the gifts they already had within them. Each time he wrote a prayer, a marvelous thing happened. It seemed to him that the prayer, although offered for his friends, remained in his heart and produced in him the very thing he prayed for them. The man copied his scroll and sent the Christmas prayer to special friends, and that is where the legend of the Christmas Prayer is lost in the mists of time. The man was never heard of again but, over the years, the Christmas Prayer began to appear all over the world. People in obscure villages and big cities would receive at Christmas time a copy of the scroll from a friend. And so the wonder multiplied, until the story finally reached you. May you, too, feel the warmth and enjoy the riches of the Christmas Prayer.
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Friday, December 24, 2010
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Merry Happy and all that Jazz
Holy Cow it's almost Christmas |
Sometimes in CA when we were not hosting family gatherings, we'd go out to brunch with another couple or two, enjoyed bloody Mary's and then later for dinner had grilled cheese sandwiches. Well that worked, but around here the people we know are all with families and hunkered in. Really we should have moved to a Sun City retirement villa amongst other empty nesters and enjoying it! But bah humbug here we are. Tomorrow, Christmas eve after early candlelight church service, (no way can I make it to midnight mass!, well not and enjoy a glass of wine or two with dinner!) we will have my famous Polish mushroom soup (Grandma Rose's recipe) and shrimp cocktails and sauerkraut pierogies. This will link back to my Polish childhood traditional Christmas Eve meatless suppers with a twist. We never had shrimp cocktails then. But it's a new world with new and different traditions in the making. Christmas Day looks like New York steaks and lobster tails! These are good quality meals for two people. Meantime, before the holiday has totally run by I share the rest of my 2010 limited Christmas decor.
Brocade Santa with Kitty Musical Notice the little girl hiding beneath Santa's beard... |
Brocade Carolers |
The carolers were a new acquisition in 2004, the year I kind of retired but was still on the books for 5 months, running all that time out I had accumulated and could never use by taking vacations while working. We were here in MN for part of the holiday and then headed south to Louisiana to be with friends. Oh that was the kind of winter we envisioned from now on, being on the go! What happened to that vision, life interfered with all the obligations and duties. From La. our first Christmas in the south, where they had record freezing temperatures, we went back to California to continue to clear out. When I was back in January the Department of Health called me and begged my help running interview panels to replace the likes of so many of us who had retired at high levels, leaving the place lacking for top management replacements. Well being a sucker I agreed, but after one week and 3 days of early 4:30 AM risings to catch that commuter bus into downtown Sacramento, I got good hold of myself. This was why I wanted to retire! I would do no more. I wanted to be done with the curtain calls, it was not fun and I was no way amused. It was not my problem the state had imposed perpetual hiring freezes and now did not have talent to fill behind us. In the words of a long time ago auditee who knew his organization was in deep doo doo as we departed, "Good luck, Beeill!" You had to be there to know about this one. Ahh this makes me shudder just thinking about it. Onto more holiday decor today. The tiny bear couple on the floor have been with us for 20 Christmases. Little did we expect to have the preponderance of bears among us, though this couple appears only for Christmas.
Only one of our many churches out this year with one of hundreds of angels |
The carolers were a new acquisition in 2004, the year I kind of retired but was still on the books for 5 months, running all that time out I had accumulated and could never use by taking vacations while working. We were here in MN for part of the holiday and then headed south to Louisiana to be with friends. Oh that was the kind of winter we envisioned from now on, being on the go! What happened to that vision, life interfered with all the obligations and duties. From La. our first Christmas in the south, where they had record freezing temperatures, we went back to California to continue to clear out. When I was back in January the Department of Health called me and begged my help running interview panels to replace the likes of so many of us who had retired at high levels, leaving the place lacking for top management replacements. Well being a sucker I agreed, but after one week and 3 days of early 4:30 AM risings to catch that commuter bus into downtown Sacramento, I got good hold of myself. This was why I wanted to retire! I would do no more. I wanted to be done with the curtain calls, it was not fun and I was no way amused. It was not my problem the state had imposed perpetual hiring freezes and now did not have talent to fill behind us. In the words of a long time ago auditee who knew his organization was in deep doo doo as we departed, "Good luck, Beeill!" You had to be there to know about this one. Ahh this makes me shudder just thinking about it. Onto more holiday decor today. The tiny bear couple on the floor have been with us for 20 Christmases. Little did we expect to have the preponderance of bears among us, though this couple appears only for Christmas.
The scene in front of the living room window looks something like this. More there now but this photo was taken weeks ago. |
Randy the Reindeer Ranch Elf |
You saw the elves on a previous post. One you did not see was Randy, the dude from Reindeer Ranch, Newcastle, CA. He lives outside the Christmas closet all year long and mingles with the teddy bears, but the Patriots in the Americana room have been bending his ears all year and encouraging him to be with "his own kind" taunting him that elves don't usually associate with bears. Randy was created by a Newcastle friend down to the bells on his toes in about 1991. She taught special education children and made similar creatures to tell tales to the kids. I considered not bringing him to MN but he insisted that this was Nordic territory something to which he was more accustomed, so along he came. Generally he is content to sit on the rocking chair in the Patriotic room, but this year he became anxious. He reminds me of the trolls in stories I grew up hearing, the trolls who lived beneath bridges and preyed on unsuspecting wandering children. Well Randy got gumption from listening to those Patriot Bears this year and while I was busy elsewhere he began to instigate the elves to insist on an elfin Christmas here in the home, I was in the doldrums, the blahs or the humbugs and Randy insisted I shake it. Little by little I put out some decorations and tried to set the festivities of the season in order. Randy figured it was time for an elfin reunion and so that is how they came to congregate for 2010. Randy is feeling quite smug, but what he does not know is that he may be relegated to the Christmas closet now with his elfin pals when the holidays are done. After all if he can let the bears influence him, perhaps it's best if he joins the elves who do good deeds. Than Randy can perhaps shed some of his trollness.
Fritz and Floyd Elves |
1940's Elf |
1950's Elf Band |
This is my excuse for a tree upstairs on our hearth, silver tinsel wreath adorns coat hangers clipped together and adorned with white lights and golden pieces. Dorothy Wiedeman, an elderly local lady made this five years ago and donated it to the church's 's white elephant sale. No one was bidding and so trying to get something started I bid $5, you can see I won. I think this is the last year I will store it. The Jack Frost Scarecrow/ snowman next to the tree also plugs in and lights. He was made in CA by an elderly lady who sold her ceramics every year at the Auburn Christmas Fair. Each year I purchased something from her. One year it was a lovely ceramic tree adorned with animals of all sorts and tiny lights. I gave that to the grandkids and hope their mother did not discard it, because it was quite lovely. I loved Jack Frost Scarecrow at first sight and have enjoyed bringing him out occasionally on holiday time. He is holding a small tree and I love his golden touches with the creamy glaze all over. He reminds me of the tales of Jack Frost but is far more elegant.
The old lamp lighter of long long ago,,,,,he made the world a little brighter, wherever he would go,,,,,Remember that song? |
One of our French Bronze with brass container of greenery and candle. |
Pointsettia platter with sleigh riders and lamplighter |
Our newest Nativity set, on upstairs mantel. It is Royal Doulton, which I understand is now being made in China. Jerry picked this one up in 2005 at my urging and it may be one of the last non Chinese made. Regardless of the theme of my decor, I always have at least two nativity sets on display, commemorating the real reason why we celebrate. This year I decided to spread some more holiday cheer downstairs over Jerry's objections. If I had the blahs this year he had a double dose. So I thought that some tinsel would tackle the darkness and proceeded. If one tinsel tree was good surely two more on the window sill would be better to reflect the sunshine off the white snow banks outside. And what good is a little tinsel without more glamour. Jerry used to ice skate when he grew up here, so I thought a bit of reminder by way of a small village p;anaroma on a side immediately downstairs would be just the thing. |
1980's hand crafted Santa |
New England Panorama |
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
This is what happens, well it could
Sharing this favorite old story of mine, for anyone who thought my concern over snow and my appointment with my hair dresser was minor! Read on..
I was walking down the street when I was accosted by a particularly dirty and shabby-looking homeless woman who asked me for a couple of dollars for dinner. I took out my wallet, got out ten dollars and asked, 'If I give you this money, will you buy wine with it instead of dinner?'
'No I had to stop drinking years ago,' the homeless woman told me.
'Will you use it to go shopping instead of buying food?' I asked
'No, I don't waste time shopping,' the homeless woman said. 'I need to spend all my time trying to stay alive.'
'Will you spend this on a beauty salon instead of food?' I asked.
'Are you NUTS !' replied the homeless woman. 'I haven't had my hair done in 20 years!'
'Well,' I said, 'I'm not going to give you the money. Instead, I'm going to take you out for dinner with my husband and me tonight.'
The homeless Woman was shocked. 'Won't your husband be furious with you for doing that? I know I'm dirty, and I probably smell pretty disgusting.'
I said, 'That's okay. It's important for him to see what a woman looks like after she has given up shopping, hair appointments, and wine.'
I was walking down the street when I was accosted by a particularly dirty and shabby-looking homeless woman who asked me for a couple of dollars for dinner. I took out my wallet, got out ten dollars and asked, 'If I give you this money, will you buy wine with it instead of dinner?'
'No I had to stop drinking years ago,' the homeless woman told me.
'Will you use it to go shopping instead of buying food?' I asked
'No, I don't waste time shopping,' the homeless woman said. 'I need to spend all my time trying to stay alive.'
'Will you spend this on a beauty salon instead of food?' I asked.
'Are you NUTS !' replied the homeless woman. 'I haven't had my hair done in 20 years!'
'Well,' I said, 'I'm not going to give you the money. Instead, I'm going to take you out for dinner with my husband and me tonight.'
The homeless Woman was shocked. 'Won't your husband be furious with you for doing that? I know I'm dirty, and I probably smell pretty disgusting.'
I said, 'That's okay. It's important for him to see what a woman looks like after she has given up shopping, hair appointments, and wine.'
Monday, December 20, 2010
Patooey it's snowing again
This may seem minor in the scheme of whatever things are happening with you, but it is snowing again and is to keep up through the night and that means we will have accumulated about six more inches at least by morning. And if that is not enough, freezing drizzle in the early AM hours. This brought me to look out the window and shout 4 letter words today as it billowed and blew white dusty stuff. 4 letter words repeated multiple times, because I have somewhere to go tomorrow. I will tell my CA left behinds that this snow in MN is not so bad because being retired we have no need to go out into it, the roads are cleared courtesy of the city and county, etc.... But all I could think of is, "I HAVE A HAIR CUT APPOINTMENT AT 1:15 TOMORROW.!! DAMMIT I NEED TO GET MY HAIR CUT!" I make these hair appointments 6 to 7 weeks in advance and as any woman knows, this close to Christmas, even though my hair dresser and I are close, she will no way be able to reschedule me. Jerry sits calmly and tells me I do not need to be out tomorrow in the freezing drizzle, nothing is so that important that it can't be rescheduled, well,what can he know?
Besides I spaced this appointment a bit too long into the future looking toward Christmas week, I am now shaggy and hairily out of shape. This must not be happening and why did I agree to move here anyway to an area where winter will not respect nor even consider my needs!
I dislike whiners, but tonight I am wallowing in it. We have no big Christmas plans so no troubles there, but I prefer my wash and wear and slightly blow dry styles and right now the length is requiring more manipulation than I like to do. Perhaps tomorrow will bring sunshine and clear roads, contra to weather predictions. Tomorrow is the beginning of winter and already we have been ahead of the calendar. What will tomorrow bring,.. oh we will see.
Besides I spaced this appointment a bit too long into the future looking toward Christmas week, I am now shaggy and hairily out of shape. This must not be happening and why did I agree to move here anyway to an area where winter will not respect nor even consider my needs!
I dislike whiners, but tonight I am wallowing in it. We have no big Christmas plans so no troubles there, but I prefer my wash and wear and slightly blow dry styles and right now the length is requiring more manipulation than I like to do. Perhaps tomorrow will bring sunshine and clear roads, contra to weather predictions. Tomorrow is the beginning of winter and already we have been ahead of the calendar. What will tomorrow bring,.. oh we will see.
Friday, December 17, 2010
2 year mournful anniversay Sepia Saturday Week 54 (Click here for the Sepia site)
Today December 18 marks the second year of our son, Steve's passing, too soon. I share some Christmas memories here (ghosts of Christmases past) with the Sepia community, although these are not nearly of the vintage that I usually post. It is a tough time for us, but at least the raggedness of our grief has diminished, the slow healing of time, acceptance and the remembering the good times.
I used to be Mrs. Christmas with the excessive decorating, the stockings, the presents, on and on. I gift wrapped everythimg, even the smallest toy that went into the stockings. Although I was certainly indulged as a child and at Christmas time especially, I never had a Christmas stocking. I guess it just was not the practice in my Polish family. I never thought I was deprived, but when I had Steve and we lived in CA and I always had a stocking for him. Even as an adult, he enjoyed those stockings. One year, I thought I would skip the stockings and he let me know tha was not "acceptable."
Steve always enjoyed Christmas, maybe too much. Sometimes we'd barely get to bed after Jerry'd spent hours assembling something, when Steve would awake, and run to check under the tree, the mantel for the stocking and then wake us up shouting, " Mom, Dad, Hurry! Santa's been here, Santa's been here!" We had friends whose daughter never woke up early on Christmas, in fact they had to awaken her, not so at our house! Sometimes we made him go back to bed so we could get a little sleep, never for long. He would be in him room singing and shouting, "Mom, Dad can we get up yet!"
I love this photo. My grandma said she could tell that Steve was my son, he was busy as I was. Of course she was older then in 1965 than she was when she had the handful of me!
We will stop with Steve at five years old, except for and the very last from 1977 where he still got up early- this last photo was at 3:00AM! Now he was past the age of believing in Santa but he had never outgrown that early rising to see what presents were awaiting.
This has been a nice way to remember as we try to focus on the happy moments. Thanks for indulging me. As always click on the title to this post to get to the Sepia Site and see what others share this week.
Steve's first Christmas, 1964 with a Sears Santa |
Steve always enjoyed Christmas, maybe too much. Sometimes we'd barely get to bed after Jerry'd spent hours assembling something, when Steve would awake, and run to check under the tree, the mantel for the stocking and then wake us up shouting, " Mom, Dad, Hurry! Santa's been here, Santa's been here!" We had friends whose daughter never woke up early on Christmas, in fact they had to awaken her, not so at our house! Sometimes we made him go back to bed so we could get a little sleep, never for long. He would be in him room singing and shouting, "Mom, Dad can we get up yet!"
1965 Steve kissing Santa |
1965 My Grandma Rose came to CA to help me out and to care for her only great grand child. Here they are right before Christmas. |
1966 Steve with me and Jamie, one of the McCallister boys The McCallisters were very good friends in CA |
1967 Steve and Mikey McCallister...bare feet with a new Christmas tie and tinsel on the tree |
1968 Steve with the Stocking, I can hear him saying, "Santa will fill this." |
I cannot explain the bow in my hair nor what kind of get up I was wearing, those were the blonde days, I know that. We still have that stocking.
1969 with another Dept. store Santa |
1969 Christmas with the present from Grandpa Barney in PA That was the year I covered the tree with fiber cloud, what a mess it was |
1969 Christmas Steve and Jerry |
1969 Steve and Me What a hairdo! |
1977 Early at 3 Christmas morn |
This has been a nice way to remember as we try to focus on the happy moments. Thanks for indulging me. As always click on the title to this post to get to the Sepia Site and see what others share this week.
Continued treasures from the box
Continuing from yesterday, I found these personalized labels of/for Helen Thickey who must have been quite the seamstress. I have no idea who she was so the labels are tossed; not a name I recognize from the past. I suspect she was from the Freeport, PA area as these were in the bag with things from the Irwins. I wonder if she was an acquaintance of Mrs Irwin or my aunt? An unsolved mystery. Why would anyone have kept these? Oh, Teofil's daughter would have,,,,,who knows???
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Time wasters, minute chasers....
Found in the box of buttons read on |
I had to hem another pair of sweat pants which I bought for MIL yesterday, a sewing task that is not too daunting, so I accomplished that. And then the diversion began. While I am known to waste hours on the computer roaming from blog to sites yet unknown and on that biggest minute chaser, Facebook, I can also get diverted by physical things.
From old Mrs Irwin, Needle packets |
I have learned some of these old buttons are valuable. In Lansing, Iowa, one of our favorite places to drive to down the road to spend a day, there is a Button Shop run by an elderly woman in a wheel chair who knows more about buttons than I could ever dream. Her store has nothing but buttons and threads. As I told her about these collections, and all the assorted loose buttons I've inherited and gleaned, she has urged me to bring them and spend a day with her, that she will advise me about them. I learned from her that they used to manufacture the Le Mode shell buttons from the clamshells dug from the banks of the Mississippi right there in Lansing, those were so many of the pearlized buttons of days gone by. She had several old shells showing holes where the round circles had been cut out for the buttons and shells dumped back along the shore from the factory, I wonder if they ate the clams or dropped them back for animals to consume. She is a fascinating woman and I look forward to going through these buttons, some from Holland, Germany, West Germany, and England. That is still on my to do list. Meantime here are just a very few of the collections, look at the prices, 29 cents! That certainly dates these buttons. .
The red/orange buttons (left) were made in Holland, 29 cents was the price |
The two Bon Ton buttons (left) are made of nickel according to the back of the card The three Le Chick buttons (right) were made in Germany |
Just the other day I was telling Jerry to not pull the snaps loose on his shirt while he was fiddling with it because I had no way to fix those; I remember saying "they are not like buttons!" He will only wear shirts, western style and cut trim, with snaps, but that is an entire other post because those are getting harder to find all the time. Well, he was Aunt Jinx's favorite and I think today she was taunting me from beyond because there were no less than 5 different packets of snaps of all types and attachment tools in this box including some strange looking things that resemble manual old paper hole punchers. So while I was rummaging Jerry came downstairs and became very interested in the box too. He mentioned,. "Didn't you say you had no way to fix snaps? Look at all these!" I can only laugh that Aunt Jinx showing me up again!
Here it is the Match flap, I thought |
Read the instructions |
Well so there you have my time waster, minutes of memory chaser for today....
Monday, December 13, 2010
Christmas Baking and Decor
Hazelnut cinnamon biscotti await 2nd baking |
My contributions this year are almond sandies, and three kinds of biscotti. I am gaining a reputation for making the best and unusual biscott's, something many here in this small town had not heard of nor baked, and something most adults adore. I prefer making cookies for adults, having no small children around. My flavors this year are hazelnut cinnamon, hazelnut vanilla, peppermint candy cane drizzled with chocolate; the hazelnut is winning because we buy mixed nuts for snacks and Jerry always picks the hazelnuts (filberts) aside, leaving a big collection of these when the container of mixed nuts is gone. I have started to chop them and bake with them as there are too many for me to eat and or put into my martini or gimlet, another practice I'd never heard of until we moved here. When I would order a gimlet (which I prefer light on the gimlet and heavier on the vodka) because few bartenders around here can make my favorite Cosmo, I recall the first time the bartender asked me " with or without nuts?" I thought he was kidding, he was not. It seems filberts are placed into gimlets much like I used to use olives or slices of lime. I never heard of that before. Oh the things I have learned since moving to MN!
The first photo above is the vanilla hazelnut biscotti logs cut and ready for the 2nd baking. I discovered a wonderfully easy recipe for biscotti and have adapted it to many different flavors always with success. What I once would never have considered baking has become a breeze for me. The time to bake these cookies twice in order to give them the hardness needed for dunking into coffee or tea is discouraging to many would be bakers. But having mastered it, I feel like a wizard.
You might want this recipe and I share it but I warn you I never follow a recipe exactly. I credit my grandmother Rose for my creativity, she never measured either. So I adapt and modify and if I get an idea for a different flavor I add it. I usually always use twice the amount of vanilla in any recipe. Here is my basic Biscotti Recipe which I modify with nuts, chocolate chips, peppermint candies crushed and you name it I try it. You should be able to click on this photo of the recipe and enlarge it. It is one that will go into my "Cookbook of Favorites by Family, Friends and Myself ."
Just inside and ahead in the Christmas closet You cannot see to the left nor full floor to ceiling |
Sitting elf (1940's) with shopping elf, 1990's. |
1967 Fontannini Nativity Musical; very rare Fontannin no longer makes musicals to my knowledge. Tinsel is my addition this year |
1940's Elf discoverd at Uncle Carl's in PA; likely belonged to Aunt Marge |
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