Today December 18 marks the second year of our son, Steve's passing, too soon. I share some Christmas memories here (ghosts of Christmases past) with the Sepia community, although these are not nearly of the vintage that I usually post. It is a tough time for us, but at least the raggedness of our grief has diminished, the slow healing of time, acceptance and the remembering the good times.
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| Steve's first Christmas, 1964 with a Sears Santa |
I used to be Mrs. Christmas with the excessive decorating, the stockings, the presents, on and on. I gift wrapped everythimg, even the smallest toy that went into the stockings. Although I was certainly indulged as a child and at Christmas time especially, I never had a Christmas stocking. I guess it just was not the practice in my Polish family. I never thought I was deprived, but when I had Steve and we lived in CA and I always had a stocking for him. Even as an adult, he enjoyed those stockings. One year, I thought I would skip the stockings and he let me know tha was not "acceptable."
Steve always enjoyed Christmas, maybe too much. Sometimes we'd barely get to bed after Jerry'd spent hours assembling something, when Steve would awake, and run to check under the tree, the mantel for the stocking and then wake us up shouting, " Mom, Dad, Hurry! Santa's been here, Santa's been here!" We had friends whose daughter never woke up early on Christmas, in fact they had to awaken her, not so at our house! Sometimes we made him go back to bed so we could get a little sleep, never for long. He would be in him room singing and shouting, "Mom, Dad can we get up yet!"
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| 1965 Steve kissing Santa |
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1965 My Grandma Rose came to CA to help me out and
to care for her only great grand child. Here they are right before Christmas.
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I love this photo. My grandma said she could tell that Steve was my son, he was busy as I was. Of course she was older then in 1965 than she was when she had the handful of me!
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1966 Steve with me and Jamie, one of the McCallister boys
The McCallisters were very good friends in CA |
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1967 Steve and Mikey McCallister...bare feet with a new
Christmas tie and tinsel on the tree
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1968 Steve with the Stocking, I can hear him saying, "Santa will fill this."
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I cannot explain the bow in my hair nor what kind of get up I was wearing, those were the blonde days, I know that. We still have that stocking.
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| 1969 with another Dept. store Santa |
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1969 Christmas with the present from Grandpa Barney
in PA
That was the year I covered the tree with fiber cloud, what a mess it was
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| 1969 Christmas Steve and Jerry |
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| 1969 Steve and Me What a hairdo! |
We will stop with Steve at five years old, except for and the very last from 1977 where he still got up early- this last photo was at 3:00AM! Now he was past the age of believing in Santa but he had never outgrown that early rising to see what presents were awaiting.
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| 1977 Early at 3 Christmas morn |
This has been a nice way to remember as we try to focus on the happy moments. Thanks for indulging me. As always click on the title to this post to get to the Sepia Site and see what others share this week.
