Copying is the most sincere form of flattery, so here I go; a week or so ago, Beatrice, a bloggy friend at http://thefrogandpenguinn.blogspot.com/ posted their adventures at an auction, browsing but buying not. I commented that I used to enjoy those so much but have tended to avoid them and flea markets and estate sales these days lest I be tempted. I have enough accumulation of stuff and so do not want to be tempted to add to things when in reality I should be downsizing, but here it is all coming to me later in life, collections and trinkets and treasures from my family members who pass on, adding to what I have already accumulated. Funny but when we moved to MN from CA I shed many belongings, donating to the Goodwill, Salvation Army, the Cancer Society Thrift Store and the church for future rummage sales, a necessary step toward moving into retirement and to a different part of the country. But today, I have just as much, maybe more.
The last source, as you know was my Aunt Jinx who passed on in PA last year; while clearing her home for sale we discovered box after box packed neatly away in the basement filled with knick knacks, collectibles, some valuable which I'd have picked up at sales myself once upon a time, some just nice and some mysterious. I recalled her admonishments to me when she visited in CA and I dragged her and Mom along to sales, antique shops, etc, "don't buy that junk, someday you will have too much!" Little did I know the truth and prediction in those words. She gave me something every time I visited her, but I think she had long forgotten about these boxes packed tidily away in her basement, many with items from the Irwins (her husband's family.) I had already amassed enough to bring back home to MN, with crystal and cut glass items alone. I left behind a beautiful 12 piece place setting of china that would go with some of ours, not a replica but same silver and grey tones. But our hutch is full and I have boxes setting inside my closets already so what would I need with more. Besides I don't use it as much here because I seldom host big gatherings; this is how weird life is, once you get the stuff to do what you think you want to do, it's over, no more. I thought surely I'd be the entertainment queen of La Crescent, but not so, not that many people to gather around together and mostly we gather out at the Legion or restaurants.
So in PA, every item I picked up Jerry would look at and say, "now where are you going to put that?" I would sadly leave it for Sandy, the woman we hired to hold an estate sale to clear the home. I now possess a full comprehension of why families leave items like china, vases, trinkets and the like to be sold. It just becomes overwhelming when you are faced with the task and you do not live near by, so have limited time to sort and discard. I even left a shoe box of unlabeled black and white photos, recognizing that someone might see it and say as I have, "how sad no one wanted these pictures..." But as you know I am engaged in sorting and discarding through an accumulation of ever so many photographs of our own, along with ones from family that I need not have added to the mess with ones of I know not whom nor what. I will admit that periodically I get pangs of remorse remembering some trinket, object, utensil, that I wished I'd have kept, but water under the bridge. We just do our best and try not to look back.
So I have turned the corner avoiding what was a fun past time, browsing flea markets, antique booths, estate sales, etc. On Saturday though we headed up the road to Houston, MN and their annual Hoedown. This is a weekend long celebration of all sorts of things, games, carnival, parade, gatherings, foods and a big open flea market in the park. "Well, I probably wouldn't look very long there anyway," so I said to myself and to Jerry, who nodded and replied, "well you never know." I have this relatively new little camera which I just insisted I must have to carry around in my purse (which I seldom carry BTW) so off we went, with myself armed and dangerous thinking, "I can take some neat photos for the blog like Beatrice did. Yes, that will give me a reason to look and perhaps keep my fingers from purchasing. " Actually, most of the prices vendors put at these things now are beyond what I want to pay, when I was acquiring I was only looking for bottom bargain prices, it had to be inexpensive or I would not purchase it.
The photo above of the horse pull is from our La Crosse Tribune newspaper. We learned a funny story about this event from our amusing friend Richard, former mayor of Houston, retired teacher, and all around jokester. He said that Saturday's 32nd annual Minnesota State Horse Pull was his inspiration; years back they were sitting around and thinking of what kind of attractions Houston would host. They determined that there was no "State Championship horse pull" and so they named theirs that, which it still is today causing them all to laugh and raise their beer mugs in deference. This photo of 72 year old Lawrence Anderson with his draft horses says a lot; these horses pulled over 3,000 pounds, and he himself is not light weight. Most of these horses and farmers are from working farms and they do enjoy this sport. Read the story of this team and the WI event too at http://lacrossetribune.com/news/local/article_6cdece7a-97a2-11df-ba69-001cc4c002e0.html
The flea market in the park at Houston was a great way to pass a few hours looking at an endless variety of things, like these home made willow contraptions and talking to the man who made them who was sitting in the shade, not caring if he sold or not. These are a bit too rustic for my tastes, as I prefer the fancier, white wicker furniture in our sunporch room. Victory continues as I was not tempted. But as I said, he didn't care much one way or the other, this is a sideline hobby and as he shared, it wasn't important to sell in Houston because , sooner or later someone will buy them at a fair; and he expects the city people near Minneapolis would be happy to get such bargains, but not here in the southeast corner of rural MN, the market is not as good and buyers are more selective. I guess at one time I might have been one of those city folks willing to buy anything handmade too.
Unfortunately several vendors must have that attitude because sales were slim, lookers were many and there was no bargaining with these vendors. I asked one woman at this booth, where Jerry's browsing (back to us in photo) how long it took her to set up; in my opinion she had overpriced glassware and such. She said about 4 hours with 3 or 4 of them working. And I asked then didn't she want to sell and wasn't that a lot of work for nothing in sales? But she too said, this is her hobby and she just enjoys meeting and talking with folks. (I think I'd just take my lawn chair and not bother especially with wrapping and setting up and taking down. But to each his or her own. )
The blue rugs above are of old discarded denim. She does teach her craft at different community education sites and here she was explaining to an interested customer. I know my grandmother made her own rag rugs too, and when I was small I remember making potholders of rags. She had one of her looms set up so customers could see the work in progress.
Maybe if she could have dragged him down a ways, he might have been interested in these old toy trucks....didn't Tom T Hall write a song about little boy toys, little toy trucks zooming round the bend, doesn't it make you wish you were a little boy again? Nope, Google tells me it was Roger Miller and went like this,
Old toy trains, little toy tracks
Little toy drums coming from a sack
Carried by a man dressed in white and red
Little boy, don't you think it's time you were in bed?
There is something beyond nostalgic to these items, something connective to other times, places and people?
The item below and to the right looks like a torture mechanism, but Jerry explained how it was used to pull hay along and then attached somehow with ropes/pulleys to the contraption in the first photo and so swept up hay to get it to the bale stage. Something like that anyway!
And if one gets thirsty, the hospitality of hoedown includes unlimited free glasses of water. Sure there are booths selling lemonade, snow cones, etc but the nice cold fresh water was great and avoided having to buy a plastic bottle of water which is commonly sold at events. This makes lots more sense!
Real home made canned goods and produce were among other booths.
However, we did buy this sign from the Rag Weaver's booth who sold other things as well as her rugs. This made me laugh and I think we can enjoy it downstairs in the TV room. Jerry has now decided it can also go along in the motor home with us on journeys, as it seems to speak to & fit with parts of our lives---
And on our way back to the car, I could not resist this lovely home with a grand old porch! Noticing it was for sale, we discussed how it might serve as a Bed and Breakfast, not something I want to do, but someone might! It comes with nice screened side porch and gas light out front! 