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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Pen Pals Sepia Saturday 60 (Click here to get to the Sepia Saturday host site)

Last week's Sunday St. Paul Pioneer Press had a fascinating article that caught my eye, "Best friends for five decades--all through letters."   The article about 67 year old Maureen Keppy from Forest Lake, MN who has seen her best friend face-to-face just twice in 50 years.  She and Chihoko Nakamura of Japan have been pen pals over more than 50 years, starting when Maureen was in fourth grade in Iowa and Chihoko a couple years older.  They met once for 10 minutes at an airport and then in 2008 when Maureen and her hubby visited Japan for 10 days to spend time with Chihoko. This photo shows the two who have been corresponding monthly, in English, longhand,  really yes, old school,  pen to paper, using snail mail all those years,  a heart warming story. Maureen has all their letters, wouldn't that be a great thing to have.  I wonder if school children  get pen pals these days or would they even know what that is? It occurs to me that we could consider our blogger friends like pen pals but with a faster way to communicate.  Did you ever have a pen pal?   

August 1960 vacation, Ramino with his two
sisters somewhere in Columbia;
 the writing, "yo" is his, Spanish for me, I, myself.
I remembered that I had a pen pal in high school, a boy from Columbia South America.  I have not thought of him  forever and have never been to Columbia.  It was an exchange arranged by our high school Spanish teacher; I recall we wrote in Spanish to each other as he knew no English.  Digging through one small scrapbook that has survived my journeys, I found a small photo of Ramino, that was his first name and  the writing on the back o fthis photo has faded but it looks like his last name was Rosaria.  I recall little about him other than he lived in Columbia and we corresponded  for part of the 1959-60 school year and  part of a summer,  then I heard no more, I don't know if he  ceased writing or I did.   

I do recall my mother being very  suspicious of this activity; Mom was suspicious of any boy, but that is another long story, which caused lots of heart ache. She could not understand what we were writing because it was Spanish and this really annoyed her as she snooped, without the  slightest regard for my privacy. I asked my teacher to intervene, to call my mother to assure her I would not be abducted and sold into "white slavery" in some foreign land, as Mom feared. I didn't even know what white slavery was but Mom mentioned it and I knew it was upsetting.  How neat it would have  been to keep that friendship over the years as the women did.  I wonder whatever became of him now.


Sanctuary of the Lady of the Lajas
Although I have none of the letters, I have two postcards from Ramino,  one of the Sanctuary of the Lady of las Lajas in Narino, Columbia.  I found  a website with more  photos of this Columbian church which evidently it is quite famous, you can see for yourself   http://www.ipitimes.com/llscac.htm  According to the website, the Sanctuary of Our Lady of Las Lajas in Ipiales, Nariño, Colombia is " seven kilometers from Ipiales,  on a bridge which spans a spectacular gorge of the Guáitara River..Legend has it that an image of the Virgin Mary appeared in the mid-18th century on an enormous rock above the river. Interestingly, the church has been constructed in such a way that the rock (and image) is its high altar. Pilgrims from all over Colombia and Ecuador journey here and, unsurprisingly, reports of miracles at the site are not uncommon. Accommodation is suitably ascetic, being provided in a small but cheery convent up the road from the church."  Interesting to see that it attracts folks today.  Raimuno"s card says only "to my friend" in Spanish. I think I  know more about this church now than I did at the time, pre computers and all...

The  other post card is Holtel, Nutibara in Medellin, Columbia which is  still standing and today looks much the same.  I shuddered a bit when I saw Medellin, because I believe  that is a well known drug cartel center.  Never the less, here is the 1959  postcard and from the website I found it may need updating but is still functional.
Hotel Nutibara, Medellin

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18 comments:

  1. What a great story - or stories, really. I also wonder what happened to Ramino. That postcard of the sanctuary that he sent you is stunning.

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  2. Yes a great story. I never did have a pen-pal but a few years ago a friend of mine and myself decided to try and save the art of letter-writing by exchanging hand-written letters by post on a regular basis. We kept it up for about a month and then abandoned it for the ease of e-mail!

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  3. Maybe Ramino will find you through Internetland! At school, we were allocated penpals and I wrote to a girl in Japan, but our correspondence fell by the wayside. Jo

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  4. I fear kid's pen pals today are more often texting pals and sometimes internet or FB friends (if they're) old enough to be on line....Don't you think? But this story is a remarkable one and I'm happy you shared it!

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  5. I don't remember having a pen pal but my daughter had tons of them during her teen years. All over the world. She even met a formerly unknown (to us) relative through her pursuit of penpals.

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  6. What wonderful stories! Yes I had a pen pal named Faye Sasabuchi. It was during the late 50's and early 60's. She lived in Hawaii and send orchid lei's to me for my 16th birthday.

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  7. Oh yes, I had a pen pal, a girl from Scotland. I spotted a letter in the Sacramento Bee where she was looking to connect with someone from America. I responded with a letter and a couple of photos. I have no idea how many "friends" she might have picked up but I was pleased to have been one. We wrote each other a couple of times a month for a year or a little more. I sent her a tray of CA dried fruits for Christmas and received a tie, tartan plaid, which I never wore. I dropped the correspondence when she started writing about coming to the US and getting married. Just graduated from HS and I was definitely not ready for that. I don't remember her name but I never forgot that awful tie. :-)

    Tom

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  8. This wonderful post prompted so many memories of my own! I, too, had a pen pal when I was a teenager. We wrote to each other for several years. The funny thing is that at first I thought I was writing to another girl, and he thought he was writing to another boy. It took a few letters to sort that out!

    As for staying at a convent ... my husband and I did that several years ago. Not the one at the lovely church in your photo, but one in Oregon. I'd almost forgotten about that, but it's worth a post one day.

    Thanks for sharing your lovely memories and pictures.

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  9. I had a Dutch pen-pal for a while when I was in my 20s. We met, but sadly, his ability to speak English was far less adept than his ability to write it. We had a less than successful encounter since we had no one to interpret for us.

    Kev and I have a foster child in Columbia that we support through a Canadian organization.

    It's nice that this article brought back these memories for you.

    Kat

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  10. Pat, thanks for this post on pen pals. Yes, I have a pen pal, Eileen, who lives in South Africa and though we have never met face to face, we have been exchanging letters and photos for over 40 years. While we still send letters, now Eileen has acess to a friend's PC and so send short emails as well. In addition to this pen pal, I also corresponded with people in other parts of Europe, the Phillipines, Turkey, Malaysia and a few other countries I can't recall. All while I was in high school and had obtained a pen pal magazine. I also sent cassette tapes to several people who were blind and so could not exchange letters. I was able to meet a couple of these former pen pals many years ago. One, a young Dutch man was visiting the U.S. and had dinner in my home; the other 2 were living in France and when I was on a vacation in my 20s was able to meet them. Sadly, I have never been in contact with any of these people since, except for Eileen in South Africe. We still continue to write and now email.

    Yes, I do agree with you that blogging is the new pen pal, much more than any of those social networking sites.

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  11. Really fascinating. I once had a pen pal in England. We wrote for over a year and then I sent her a birthday gift and she never wrote back. I always found that odd. Still have her letters.

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  12. What a wonderful post. I never had a pen pal and am impressed that you have a picture of yours to share as well!

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  13. pen pals, old schools? yeah, right, i had Catherine and Alcides, one from France, the other from Cuba, but these came about during my adult life, where i got to correspong with them for a few years, and then, it died down....
    as for my childhood, the sisters of St-Ann did not encourage correspondance but funding for the missionaries in far away countries.

    these women have a wonderful story.
    :)~
    HUGZ

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  14. Pat, that was so interesting! How wonderful that those two have kept the letters flying back and forth for all of these years. I did have a pen pal when I was in elementary school (also a class assignment). I don't remember how it ended either. I probably quit writing when school let out for the summer. How great that you still have the post cards and his picture. laurie

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  15. Ramino was very handsome. I wonder what he looks like today.
    I had a pen pal from Japan. I'll have to look for her letters. They're here somewhere. I also had a "foster" child in Guatemala. When I was in Guatemala I tried to look her up. I can't remember now what happened but I wasn't able to find her, although I did find the orphanage. I'll have to "look" for that memory, also.
    Barbara

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  16. not sure what happened to my first comment here,(so commenting again!) but this is quite an interesting post, I didn't get to read the article, but wanted to, and happy you posted about it. Are enjoying our below zero temps? Ooooh so cold, it was -17 degrees when I got up this morning! OUCH!

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  17. In many ways blogging is like having pen pals if one takes the time to get to know the blogger. I don't know a lot about my blogger friends but I keep adding more info that they share to form a friend that I care about.

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  18. I had a pen pal once upon a time- 5th grade if I remember right- and it was a class project. It didn't last longer than that school year though. I agree with LD, I think blogging is a little like having pen pals.

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